RAW CONVERSATIONS. UNAPOLOGETIC TRUTHS. REBELLIOUS RECLAMATION.LIVING THE GENE KEYS
A private, contemplative listening space for women who are done trying to fix themselves and ready to live with the Gene Keys in real time.
For the woman who’s done performing her healing
You’ve sat on therapists’ couches, highlighted the self‑help books, bought the courses, tried the meditations, maybe even pulled your Gene Keys chart. On the outside, you’re the competent one — the one who’s “doing the work.”
Inside, you’re tired.
Tired of treating your inner life like another project.
Tired of frameworks that promise transformation and leave you feeling like you failed the homework.
Tired of wondering, “How am I still this exhausted when I’ve done so much work on myself?”
Living The Gene Keys exists for the moment you realise:
You don’t need another system to master.
You need a different way to be with yourself.
What Living The Gene Keys really is
Living The Gene Keys is a private podcast — a quiet, contemplative listening space where the Gene Keys aren’t something you “use,” but something that walks alongside you.
Each biweekly episode offers:
Grounded context that translates Gene Keys language into how it actually feels in a human body and nervous system.
Real‑life stories and examples from ordinary days — work emails, hard conversations, late‑night scrolling, the familiar knot in your chest.
Spacious contemplation, with invitations to notice what moves in you, instead of instructions on what to do next.
You don’t need your chart in front of you.
You don’t need to memorise the keys or sequences.
You don’t need to keep up.
You press play, you listen, you notice. That’s the practice.
NEW EPISODES EVERY OTHER WEEK
NEW EPISODES EVERY OTHER WEEK
What this space refuses to be
This is not:
A curriculum with modules, milestones, and gold stars.
A shortcut to a “higher self” you have to perform to keep.
A spiritualized productivity plan for becoming a more efficient version of you.
Nothing here is built to improve you.
Instead, this space gently reveals the identities you built to survive — the competent one, the spiritual one, the self‑aware one, the strong one — and makes room for you to meet what’s underneath them without turning it into another self‑improvement sprint.
If this sounds like you, you’re in the right place
Living The Gene Keys is for the skeptical‑but‑open midlife woman who has quietly hit the end of her rope with surface‑level “growth.”
You’ll feel seen here if:
You’ve tried therapy, self‑help, “self‑care,” and they helped… until they didn’t.
You sense there’s depth in the Gene Keys, but every time you look at your chart, you feel overwhelmed, behind, or not “qualified” enough.
You want something more honest than “love and light,” and more humane than “fix your mindset.”
You’re not looking for someone to tell you who to be — you’re looking for a steadier way to be with who you are.
You don’t have to be certain this is “your thing.”
You just have to recognise yourself in that quiet, tired, still‑seeking place.
One time purchase, endless possibilities
Living The Gene Keys is a private podcast for the midlife woman who’s tried therapy, self‑help, and “self‑care” and is still exhausted by the pressure to fix herself. Instead of another system to master, you’ll get biweekly, contemplative episodes that move with your real life — helping you soften urgency, meet your shadows honestly, and remember the self you buried under everyone else’s expectations. Relief from "getting it right." A slower, kinder rhythm for change.
How the private podcast holds you
Here’s how it works:
New episodes arrive every two weeks, giving you time to actually live with them instead of binge‑consuming more information.
You get a private feed to add to your regular podcast app — no extra platforms to manage.
You can listen linearly or wander; you’re invited to follow what draws you, not what you think you “should” understand next.
Some episodes resolve something in you. Others open a question and leave it open on purpose.
There are no assignments.
No tracking sheets.
No expectation that you “do something” with every insight.
If a phrase follows you into your day, that’s enough.
If all you notice is the part of you that wants to do it perfectly, that’s enough too.
What begins to change
This podcast is not a replacement for deeper work. It’s the soil that deeper work grows in.
As you keep listening, you may find that:
The constant urge to “get it right” around your inner work starts to soften.
You recognise, in real time, when you’re turning a living teaching into a checklist.
You feel a bit less alone in the way you move through shadow, shame, urgency, and resistance.
You have more language — and more compassion — for the parts of you that have been carrying everything for decades.
The goal isn’t to “know the Gene Keys.”
The quiet outcome is that you know yourself more honestly, in the places you used to rush past.
YOUR GUIDE IN THIS WORK
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YOUR GUIDE IN THIS WORK *
Living The Gene Keys is hosted by Nicole Hate, a Guide and Identity Alchemist who has spent years walking with women who are successful on paper and secretly at a breaking point.
Over the last decade, Nicole has also used the Gene Keys and Human Design to quietly dismantle and redesign her own life — moving from performing who she “should” be into living a truer, more sustainable rhythm.
She doesn’t stand on a stage and tell you who you are; she sits beside you in the liminal space between “I can’t keep doing this” and “I don’t yet know another way,” offering language, companionship, and a slower pace that your body can actually trust.
An invitation, not a demand
If you’re waiting for someone to tell you it’s okay to stop performing your growth, let this be that permission.
You don’t have to master the Gene Keys.
You don’t have to master yourself.
You’re allowed to let this work move through your days, quietly, while you remember the self you buried under everyone else’s expectations.
When you’re ready, you can take your seat inside Living The Gene Keys and let the listening itself become your practice.
Living The Gene Keys is a private podcast for the midlife woman who’s tried therapy, self‑help, and “self‑care” and is still exhausted by the pressure to fix herself. Instead of another system to master, you’ll get biweekly, contemplative episodes that move with your real life — helping you soften urgency, meet your shadows honestly, and remember the self you buried under everyone else’s expectations. Relief from "getting it right." A slower, kinder rhythm for change.
Frequently Asked Questions
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When you join Living The Gene Keys, you receive a private podcast feed with 12 contemplative episodes for Season One, released every two weeks. You can download each episode, listen offline, and return as often as you like — this is a listening library, not a limited‑time drip.
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Season One is a complete arc of 12 episodes, released on a biweekly schedule. You’re not signing up for endless overwhelm — you’re stepping into a contained, thoughtfully paced season you can actually finish, revisit, and live with over time.
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Because this is a digital, instantly accessible offering, all sales are final and non‑refundable. Please purchase only if this work genuinely resonates; your access does not expire, so you can move at the pace your life allows.