Stop performing. Start Excavating.
Stop performing. Start Excavating.
WORK WITH ME
This work meets you exactly where you are.
Not where self-help says you should be.
This isn’t coaching as you’ve known it.
Not mindset work. Not breakthroughs in a box.
Not about doing more.
It’s about undoing what was never yours.
If you’ve outgrown your strategies, labels, and roles, but don’t yet know who you are underneath them,
this work was made for that exact threshold.
BEYOND CONVENTIONAL COACHINGWHAT this IS
This isn’t coaching in the traditional sense.
I don’t help you optimize your mindset, improve your habits, or become a “better” version of yourself.
I’m not here to motivate you, fix you, or help you perform healing more convincingly.
This work is about identity, specifically, identifying where your sense of self was shaped by conditioning, adaptation, and survival rather than truth.
We look at the patterns you keep repeating, not as problems to solve, but as information about who you’ve been trained to be.
Nothing here is about adding more. It’s about removing what never belonged.
My work is slow, precise, and embodied.
We use your lived experience, not theory, as the primary data.
Gene Keys provides language for what’s already happening, not a system to adopt or believe in.
Together, we:
Identify the pattern you’re living inside
Trace where it was installed
Notice how it’s reinforced in your nervous system and choices
Create space for a truer way of being to emerge
This isn’t insight for insight’s sake.
Insight without embodiment changes nothing.
Change happens when your body stops arguing with itself.
When this work lands, women don’t suddenly become fearless or “healed.”
What changes is subtler, and more durable:
Decisions become cleaner
Energy stops leaking
The internal negotiation quiets
Women stop asking, “What should I do?”
And start asking, “Is this true for me?”
This is identity work rooted in somatic awareness…not perfection, not performance.
Life doesn’t become perfect. It becomes coherent.
WHAT THIS WORK REQUIRES
This work requires honesty, especially with yourself.
It asks you to:
Slow down instead of powering through
Feel what you’ve learned to override
Let go of identities that once kept you safe but now keep you small
There’s no rushing here.
No bypassing discomfort.
No outsourcing authority.
If you’re willing to stay present long enough for real change to take root, this work will meet you.
If not, it will feel frustrating.
Both responses are information.
This work is NOT:
A quick fix
A breakthrough experience you chase and forget
A container for venting without responsibility
A place to be told who you are or what to do
I don’t provide certainty, timelines, or guarantees.
I won’t replace one performance with another.
If you’re looking for answers to follow, this isn’t the work.
If you’re ready to listen to what you already know, it might be.
Ways to Work Together
There is an order to this work.
Not a ladder. A sequence.
Most women enter in one of two places, depending on what they already know.
Identity Interrogation™
A single-session mirror. This is the doorway.
For women who know something is off, but can’t quite name it.
For when the pattern is too close to see clearly, but too familiar to stop repeating.
What happens:
We examine one real situation that keeps looping and expose what’s actually running the show.
No fixing. No healing arc. No commitment required.
You leave with clarity, the kind that makes it impossible to keep pretending you don’t see it.
This is for you if:
You feel rehearsed, not confused
You keep asking “Why do I do this?”
You want to understand the work before committing to depth
This session often stands alone.
Sometimes it reveals why clarity hasn’t been enough.
Both outcomes are correct.
The Pattern Exposé™
Private, application-only container.
For women who already see the pattern and are ready to dismantle the identity built around it.
This work is identity reckoning.
Not insight. Not healing arcs. Not motivation.
We expose the pattern you’re living inside. Trace where it was installed.
Interrupt it at the level it actually operates.
When that happens, internal authority stops being something you practice.
It becomes the default.
This container is application-only and held at my pace.
Clarity is not the goal. Consequence is.
If You’re Unsure Where to Start
That’s not a problem. It’s information.
Start with Identity Interrogation™ if you’re still orienting.
It’s the cleanest way to understand both the work and yourself.
Choose The Pattern Exposé™ if you already know the pattern and feel the cost of staying in it.
There’s no rush.
Readiness isn’t something you prove.
It’s something you recognize.
still have practical questions?
For logistical or fit-based clarity only, I offer a 15-minute clarification call.
This is NOT:
Coaching
A preview of the work
A space to process your story
This IS:
A contained conversation to answer:
Which entry point makes sense right now?
Is a single session appropriate?
What level of support would actually serve?
If you’re looking for reassurance or help deciding whether you’re “ready,” this won’t help.
If you want clarity without pressure, it can..
limited availabilityYou’ve Waited Long Enough
The pattern won’t dissolve on its own.
The mask won’t fall off by accident.
The life you built is too small for who you’re becoming.
You’re not here for another tool. You’re here for truth.
And your truth is tired of waiting for permission.
Choose your door:
